You can say that someone is abused if extremely rude and insulting things are said to them.
侮辱 • He alleged that he was verbally abused by other soldiers. 他声称他被其他士兵们口头侮辱了。
Abuse is extremely rude and insulting things that people say when they are angry.
辱骂 • I was left shouting abuse as the car sped off. 当车加速离去时,我在那里破口大骂。