As Berry explains, teenage girls often "see the jealousy and protectiveness as' oh, he loves me so much." '. 贝瑞解释说,少女常常“把妒忌和过度保护看作‘哦,他多么爱我’。”
One sibling can trigger a mother's inflexibility or anger or dependence, while another evokes protectiveness and empathy. 一个孩子可以惹出母亲的顽固或愤怒或依赖,同时另一个孩子又唤起母亲的保护和同情心理。