genteelly
/dʒenˈtiːlli/in a genteel manner; "the English lived genteelly in India"
adverb [方式副词] 文雅地,有教养地
She had been genteelly bred , was sensible , lively , and of a most pleasing conversation. 她受过教育,很有风度, 明达事理,很有朝气, 说话风趣.